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Let’s Eat!

We are pleased to announce that we have made an official decision on food for the wedding. The guests will be stoked that they will get to eat and we are glad to move on to the next step in planning! Food has been my first quagmire in this wedding planning process. Due to the cost of food, service, and supplies for the caterers/restaurants, it has been difficult to find a situation that is feasible for both our budget and theme and the restaurant itself. We certainly never expected any restaurant to provide food or service free of charge, we simply asked that they work with us to create a meal within a budgetary guideline. After our outstanding tasting at Fork in the Road we really wanted to try to make that work and the owners were more than accommodating of our requests which we couldn’t be more grateful for. They are very philanthropic individuals and were more than gracious about the whole process. However due to the high quality of their food, we reached a point where we felt like we may be asking for too much of a sacrifice on their part as there was only so much that could be done to work within our budget. Our priority remains the benefit to the charities which is why we felt it was most responsible for us to scale back our menu even further. Our catering will be done by Mike Martinez of the Red Rock Cafe which also happens to be Kyle’s parent’s restaurant. Of course you may be thinking, if Kyle’s parents have a restaurant why was that not the first choice to begin with? Well it was and it wasn’t. The cafe is a breakfast and lunch place which does not cater. We assumed the cost of renting everything we would need to turn a restaurant into a caterer would probably outweigh the savings we would receive on food cost. In addition, our venue offers a generous discount if you use one of their tenants and that combined with the efficiency of an actual restaurant with catering supplies, again would likely be favorable to the budget. However we have been crunching numbers, getting creative to find supplies (either by donation or super cheap) and negotiating deals with rental companies and we were able to receive a significant savings by going with the cafe. It won’t be a 5 star meal but its guaranteed to please! We feelĀ  as if a large weight has been lifted off of our shoulders and I love to check things off the list! So here’s the progress: venue:check, photographer:done, a dress:in the works, an event designer:Yep, an officiant:completed, makeup and hair:covered andĀ  food:finito! With less than 6 months to go, I think we are well on our way to a wedding!

Next stop music. We could use suggestions for local musicians or DJ’s. Or favorite wedding songs as we may just create the best wedding playlist of all time and save some dough on a professional again to maximize the benefit to charity. Let me know what you’ve got!

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What We Have and What We Need

We feel fortunate to be moving along in the planning process. We have booked some important vendors but we still have a lot left to do. We would love suggestions or recommendations.

What we have:

  • An Officiant: Don Mapes, My wonderful stepfather
  • Two amazing photographers: Melissa Dunstan and Robin Reece
  • One creative and incredible event designer: Kim Duncan
  • A venue! The biggest hurdle of all!
  • A dress! Well maybe. Nothing has been created yet but I LOVED my experience at Victorian Cowgirl so I hope to proceed forward with Candace.
  • A rehearsal dinner at the delicious Heartline Cafe
  • Hair and makeup provided by my sister and her talented friend, Christine De Angelis.

What we need:

  • Music: Do you recommend a DJ or a band? What do you recommend for ceremony music?
  • Food: We have a couple places in mind for catering but nothing is official. Any favorites?
  • Cake: I LOVE cake and dessert in general so I need something delicious. Any favorite bakers? I’m not set on a fancy wedding cake. I like the idea of cupcakes or other forms of dessert.
  • Videographer: Do people recommend this service? Do you watch your wedding video? Is it worth it?
  • Flowers: We will likely purchase a lot of our own flowers for decorating purposes but may need some help creating bouquets for myself and the bridal party.
  • Invitations: We do plan to make our own but would love suggestions for the best places to buy paper or other invitation ideas.

There is no way that list is complete so help me remember what I am forgetting. My WeddingWire account loves to remind me how close I am getting and how many boxes I have yet to check off the list! As of today, we are officially 235 days away from our wedding!

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