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Inspirational Boards: Charity Water

This lovely palette of aqua, chocolate, and touches of golden-yellow is inspired by none other than Charity Water. During our wedding planning process, with the help of several lovely ladies, we raised $1,000 for clean water. We were thrilled that we were able to help in a small way, but the need is HUGE. Charity Water raises funds to build wells in areas that do not have access to clean water. That means children do not have to walk  miles for clean water while risking their lives and forgoing an education. In addition, clean water helps prevent all sorts of diseases. This is a great organization to incorporate into your wedding because it deals with a topic that every can relate to: water.

The inspiration was simple… Aqua= water.

Yellow= the jerry cans the people use to transport their water back home.

And chocolate brown= the gorgeous people who deserve to drink and bathe in clean water.

Photos via The Charity Water Facebook Page.

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Incorporating this great cause into your wedding is as simple as setting up a gorgeous beverage station with flavored waters and other thirst quenchers, with a few simple facts about how important water is and what happens to people who don’t have it. If you really want to make a statement, set out a jug of muddy, dirty water next to the clean water with a simple question, “Which would you drink?” I have NEVER worried about where my glass of water would come from or what was in my bath water. No child should have to.

You could also start a mini-fund raiser. Charity Water allows you to start a campaign to raise money for a water project. You could ask guests to donate to your campaign in lieu of gifts or donate in lieu of favors.

You could also simply create your own water bottle labels with water facts. Send guests home with a bottle of water and hope they take the time to read it.

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The Impact

Our wedding was a success in every sense of the word. We had a wonderful time, we felt loved, supported and truly special. All the details came together without a hitch. But more importantly the day made a major impact on several charitable organizations which was the plan all along. When we came up with “The Charity Wedding” we really had no idea what we were getting into, we made up the rules and went with it. Planning a wedding is stressful, planning a wedding that doubles as a fund raiser added a whole separate set of work. However I do not think I could have made it through the planning without knowing that it would be doing some good for others. I would not have changed one thing and I would do it again in an instant. The impact of the day is as follows:

  • Somewhere in Africa, a community will drink fresh clean water for the first time ever, thanks to our Charity Water Campaign. This means children will be able to go to school as opposed to spending their day collecting water and disease will be reduced immensely. $980 was raised with thanks in large part to my Grandma’s sorority sisters and we donated $40, for a total of $1020.

  • Somewhere in South America at least 4 children that did not have any shoes will receive a new pair, thanks to Tom’s Shoes. We asked the Groomsman to wear them and Kyle and two of them did just that. I also purchased a pair so that one more child would get a pair of shoes!

  • Somewhere in Iraq a soldier knows that a group of people in Arizona care about him and support what he is doing for this country. We had a “Care Package Drive” and shipped two large boxes of things to him. I bet he is still chewing on bubble gum!

  • Several people in the Sedona area got to eat thanks to a very successful food drive.
  • Awareness was raised for both Heart Disease and Autism during two of our monthly charitable efforts.
  • At least one child with a serious illness was able to discover the healing power of laughter thanks to our “Send a Kid to Camp Campaign” which raised $1000.

  • We donated along the way to several of the charities that we highlighted on the blog including the Lymphoma and Leukemia Society, The Steps Foundation, and diabetic children to name a few. The total donated to several charities through the planning process was $409.
  • Several ladies wore red shoes including our bridesmaids in honor of Kim Duncan’s mother who lost her life much too soon to heart disease. Hopefully this allowed some women to think about their hearts and take care of their health!

The Grand Total for money raised or contributed through the whole process: $6429.00

This number does not include what guest’s donated in lieu of gifts or the percentage of money that went to charity from our registry through the I Do Foundation.

We know this process made us better people and gave us a reason to actively find ways to give back. We have had the opportunity to organize several fund raising or charitable efforts that would never have been organized otherwise. We were able to volunteer directly with both Camp Soaring Eagle and Second Chance Center and I do not believe we would have done that if we had not decided to theme our wedding in such a way. This process has been a major blessing to us and we are so grateful to have met all the people that we have along the way. We can not think of a better way to celebrate our love than to come together to show love to others. Many people thought we were crazy which made the support we received from so many others even more important to us. Thank you to everyone who supported this unconventional wedding, without you we would have never succeeded! Our hope is that this process proved that we can all do more to give back in at least some way. A wedding is guaranteed to change a couple’s lives forever, we find joy in knowing that it changed several other lives forever as well.

All because two people fell in love. What can your wedding do?

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Thirst Officially Quenched!

With 2 days to spare, we met our $1000 goal for our Charity Water Campaign! Booya! If you still feel inclined to donate, we are not opposed to exceeding the goal but you better hurry!! Or perhaps you could start a campaign of your own and get your family and friends involved in this cause! Trust me, it is super fun to see the money roll in and know the collective effort is saving lives. The page says there were 9 donations but really there were 39 as one donation was a lump amount from 31 of my grandma’s sorority sisters. Those 39 people helped to provide water for 50 people. Not just water for one day either, a fresh flowing supply of water that should be sustained for 20 years. That is a lot of crystal clear glasses of water and a lot of baths. Not to mention that people can support crops and livestock which not only equals food but also income. To sum it up 39 people helped to build a well which will sustain 50 thirsty people, reduce water related illness big time, create economic development, leave time for education as they no longer have to collect water,  provide protection as they no longer have to walk many miles in dangerous conditions to find water, and will create a food source. If you think about the compound effect of all these things, the results are amazing. So Thank you, for helping make that possible for 50 people. Thanks to Google Maps, Charity Water will show us the exact location of our well when it starts being built. I will keep you posted when I get word on that!

Photo by Melissa Mullen

On another charitable note, Melissa Dunstan, emailed me a story today that she thought I would appreciate. Of course, she was right! The article is about a bride, Carla, with a huge passion for rescuing needy animals. She logs many hours at her local shelter and has adopted many dogs over the past several years. She was lucky enough to find a husband that had a similar mindset and together I know they will do big things for animals. As this is a major passion of theirs, they decided it was only fitting to incorporate it into their big day. Which included of course, their own rescued dog, Ruby. Read the article to see all the other ways they incorporated this cause into their wedding. There are some great ideas for couples interested in bringing in a little charity in subtle ways!

Finally a little help is needed for a couple set to be married on September 3rd in Vegas. The couple has attempted to be married on two previous occasions but was unable to. The reason: The groom has terminal cancer and was too sick on the other occasions. Their budget is tight as they spend a lot on medical expenses yet they are determined to make their love official and have a wedding. Nick and Aleah Valley, of Valley & Co, are an event planning and design dream team. They took on this wedding and are making every effort to make it absolutely amazing for this deserving couple and their families. With little time to spare before the big day arrives, they are still in need of some things to insure this day blows the couple’s minds not to mention gives them a beautiful, stress free day that is about their love and nothing else. Just one day to forget the terrible situation they are facing and just enjoy each other. To find out how you can help go here.

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Garters: Tacky or Tradition?

Before I get started on how I feel about garters, I have a final plea. We officially have 4 days left to raise the remaining $145 to make our goal for our Charity Water Campaign. I would take time to tell you about how important water is to life (just think how much you use daily), or tell you that some people don’t even have enough to drink much less bathe in. I could tell you that children have to share water with wild animals, in which the children get last dibs. But I think it would be more effective if you took just a few minutes of your time to go to the Charity Water website and read “Why Water” or better yet watch a few of the videos they have posted. Those were of course the two methods which convinced me that this was necessary and that I wanted to help. Our goal was to raise $1000 and we are SO close. $20, $10, even $5 can help. Watch those videos because if you do you will know the impact of your $5. You will know the value of your money and I have a feeling you might consider it well spent. PLEASE, help us meet our goal which more importantly helps families have clean water to drink, bathe in and an ample supply to support crops and livestock. Water reduces diseases and saves lives. I thank you in advance!

On to garters… If I *did* have a garter, it would likely be that one above. How cute is that? It is part of the “Old New Borrowed Blue” collection of items at this Etsy shop. In addition she uses her proceeds to help oppressed women and you know I appreciate that. However this post is not about that garter, it is about garters in general. I was shopping with one of my bridesmaids over the weekend when we came by a wedding aisle. She asked if I had a garter, to which I responded, “I’m not wearing one.” She was shocked and seemingly horrified. “You HAVE TO have one,” she said passionately. My problem is I can’t get past this:

You know, the infamous groom getting swallowed by your wedding dress while his head reaches nameless regions all while every single person in your family is watching. My grand parents are invited. They don’t need to see this and to be quite frank, I don’t want them to. Call me prude, but I can’t help but think this is tacky and outdated. In addition, I don’t have tiny thighs and the thought of a lacy rubber band cutting off my circulation all night does not appeal to me. Finally, the whole purpose is for this to be thrown out to all the single men. Now explain why I want something that has been residing on my upper thigh all day and removed by my new groom’s teeth to become the new possession of one of our single friends or perhaps my little brother? Awkward. For those reasons, I do not plan to have a garter. However her plea made me think, Am I over analyzing this innocent little gesture which generally garnishes a few laughs albeit awkward laughs? Is there a classier way to incorporate the garter tradition or do you have to stick with the whole groom coming out of the dress scenario for it to really be worth it?

What do you think about garters? Are they tacky or a must have tradition?

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Charity Efforts Galore!

I have tons of good deeds on the docket today so I figured I would summarize them all as succinctly as possible into one post. First, I want to thank everyone who came through to support our troops. The Care Package drive was a success and you did not disappoint! We will be shipping off  the items to our adopted solider Manuel. Adopt a Solider is always in need of people to adopt a solider, so visit their website if you feel inclined. Adopting a soldier can involve nothing more than sending letters or even just emails of support. It’s safe to say that there is at least one civilian for every US soldier and then some, so there should never be a shortage of people willing to step up and offer a little support to our troops. All the boxes in the background are filled with items as well! Imagine a bunch of soldiers smacking on gum and spitting sun flower seeds while reading books and playing slap jack. Their downtime just got way more exciting, which is a bonus since I doubt they have much of it.

You may remember that our June charity efforts involved sending a kid to camp. Our goal was to raise $1000 to send one child with a terminal or serious illness to Camp Soaring Eagle. We were unable to raise $1000 during the month of June but the money kept coming in at the Red Rock Cafe so we kept the signs up. I am happy to report that as of yesterday we have collected $1,170.59! A BIG thank you to all the generous people who have donated and continue to donate to this amazing cause! Kyle and I are major proponents of this charity and their efforts to bring joy to children and their families. We have spent a good deal of time working behind the scenes but on Sunday we finally had the opportunity to be a part of a camp session. A family camp session is taking place this week at the Briar Patch Inn, in Oak Creek Canyon. On a side note, this has to be one of the most beautiful places I have ever been and an absolutely ideal place for a wedding. Had they not capped guest count at 25, I may have made a last minute switch! Anyway, this session is for children 5 and under who have cancer. However parent’s and siblings are also involved in this session for what makes for an amazing summer vacation get away completely free of charge for the families. I spent about 3 hours at the Briar Patch and left feeling more relaxed than when I arrived so they are guaranteed to be revived after a week of the best of what Sedona has to offer! Kyle and I helped with dinner service and I was filled with a mix of emotions. I couldn’t stop smiling as the kids were adorable and if they didn’t have little bald heads, you would have never known they were sick. That is perhaps the best thing about kids, they are able to maintain happy little attitudes despite enduring something so unbearable. In addition, at the age of 3, you really have nothing to compare to. My heart also broke for their families and the struggle they are faced with. I was always passionate about this cause but to see those smiling little faces, the babies, and the excitement over the simple things, like spider man face paint, gave this process a whole new meaning. This week the families will enjoy a Pink Jeep tour, a visit from Out of Africa, magic shows, crafts and so much more. For just a week, they get to escape and just be a family as it should be, without the stress of hospitals and treatments.

Next up, Our Charity Water Campaign is nearing its end and we still have $145 to raise to meet our goal. We have 11 days left! A small donation can go a long way towards changing someone’s life for the better. The lack of clean water means communities are ridden with sickness and disease, children are skipping school  in order to spend their days collecting water for their families, and risking their lives to travel many miles just in the hopes of finding water. Charity Water will build a well in these communities and will literally change these people’s lives forever. A clean water source provides sanitation as well as a platform for economic growth as they can raise livestock and plant crops with access to plentiful water. $20 can provide one person with water for $20 years! I pay well over that per month for water! No donation is too small, please consider helping us meet our goal so that we can serve more people!

When we started this Charity Wedding Project we created some “rules” that served as a jumping off point for getting started. As the process has progressed and vendors have made suggestions, we have evolved. One of our original plans was to select 3 charities to benefit from this process. However at this point we think larger amounts of money will be more beneficial for the charities involved so we have decided to support two. We selected Camp Soaring Eagle and we put the other selection out to our vendors. Melissa Dunstan, who was our first vendor on board and has been instrumental at making this effort a success, made the final decision. Here is what she had to say about the charity she selected:

“I’m involved in so much charity work up here in Flagstaff… But, the one that keeps coming to the front of my list is Second Chance Center for Animals.  I’m sure you know about them, they are Flagstaff’s only no-kill shelter.  They are not only a shelter for unwanted animals looking for a forever home, but they also offer low cost spay-neuter services, veterinary care, and even behavioral training to increase the human-pet bond. I’ve volunteered with this group during the fires to help them evacuate animals, from not one, but two facilities.  (The Humane Association and their own facility).  I was so impressed with their staff, their organization skills under pressure, but most importantly their compassion.  I also know from talking with their administration, that they are constantly looking for financial assistance to keep up with their ever growing needs.  For instance, tonight, they have set up an emergency evacuee shelter for pets at Ft. Tuthill to help people who have evacuated their home from the floods and cannot take their pet with them.  I can’t imagine how heart wrenching it would be not to know where I could take my animals in case of emergency, and am so relieved they are there now caring for the animals that have to be stressed and afraid.”

Melissa is one of three members who make up the fabulous wedding trio that is Celebrations Studio. We continue to be impressed by their generosity and grateful beyond words for their support. I actually did a Charity Spotlight on Second Chance Center for Animals way back when this process started and could not be more pleased with the selection!

August is now upon us (which means only two months til wedding day, eeek!) which means a brand spanking new charity effort. We have decided to hold a school supply drive for local schools! Families and schools alike are struggling to make ends meet and the start of school means a whole bunch of expenses! Many times teachers purchase supplies out of their own pockets when the school’s budgets are too tight to allow for certain things. In an effort to help we will collect items that benefit the classroom such as: tissues, sanitizing wipes, hand sanitizer, paper towels, crayons, new back packs, new lunch boxes, scissors, glue, etc. We’d also be glad to accept gift cards which families can use to purchase new shoes or clothes or that teachers can use for supplies throughout the year. Drop off locations include:

  • Red Rock Cafe- Village of Oak Creek, Next to Weber’s (Weber’s is also holding a drive if you want to drop off things when the cafe is closed)
  • Camp Verde Family Chiropractic- In addition we are offering a FREE  initial exam and report of findings to anyone who brings in a new backpack or a bag of school supplies.
  • If anyone else wants to serve as a drop off location, let me know!

On a final note, we are entered in the Weddzilla Wedding Blog Guru Awards. We’d appreciate if everyone would take a moment and vote for The Charity Wedding. There is no registering involved, it’s as simple as clicking the arrow next to our name or submitting the blog again. This drives a lot of new traffic to the blog and is a great source of exposure for our charities! We need to stay in the top 25 so help us spread the word!

As always, Thank you to everyone who has supported this process and who have given generously. In our eyes we have already achieved our dream wedding and it hasn’t even happened yet!

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Water for Everyone, Friends for Life.

I never joined a sorority in college and it was likely because my idea of a sorority girl was based largely on a stereotype. As we all know stereotypes are often inaccurate and the vision of girls partying and drinking couldn’t be further from the truth. Sororities center around academics, leadership, philanthropy and maybe most impressive, they create life long bonds among women. Let’s take a trip back in time to the 50’s when it was not common for women to attend college. My Grandmother was pledging the Chi Omega sorority at Arizona State University. Now let’s fast forward 50+ years to the present, her sorority sisters are just a memory, right? Not exactly. In fact the ladies of the ASU Chi Omega sorority still meet monthly for lunch. They call it the Lunch Bunch and it is composed of 37 Chi Omega’s from varying pledge classes. The ladies have been around for each others marriages, the birth of children, and even the death of spouses as that is what happens when you have a friend that long. So when my Grandma found out about our wedding she did what every grandma does, she started telling her friends about it. One lady, Juanita, started reading the blog and her philanthropic spirit came out.  Upon reading about Charity:Water she sprung into action and called each of the ladies with the help of another sister, Dot, and asked them to donate $20 towards the cause. You see these sorority sisters do like to drink, water that is, and they felt like other people should have the same opportunity. Last Wednesday they presented my Grandma with twenty-six $20 checks, three $25 checks, one $40 check and one $20 bill, for a grand total of $655.

I am beyond humbled and extremely grateful for their amazing contribution to the cause. Last night I wrote out 31 Thank You notes to each lady, telling them each a brief fact about how they changed and saved lives through their donation. Some of the stats included:

  • 42,000 people die each week due to water-related illness and lack of sanitation.
  • 90% of the victims are children under the age of 5.
  • Women and children in Africa alone spend 40 billion, yes billion, hours walking for water each year.
  • Once full the water jug, they carry for miles, weighs 40 lbs.
  • The time spent walking for water not only prevents children from attending school but it also puts both women and children at greater risk of violence and sexual assault.
  • Charity:Water spends extensive time teaching the people where wells are built about proper sanitation. Proper hand washing alone can prevent 45% of deaths caused by water-related illness and lack of sanitation.
  • A Water Committee is formed of elected members of the community where water projects are built so that they can help organize and maintain their water project. The elected positions are often women which brings a new sense of respect and integrity to communities where women are not treated as equals.
  • Each community that receives a well from Charity:Water must petition for one and contribute to the project. This instills a sense of ownership and pride.
  • A water source not only provides clean water for drinking and clean water for sanitation but it also provides a way to irrigate small gardens. This not only provides food for families but it also provides an income source as they can sell their produce at open markets.
  • Just $20 provides water for one person for 20 years.

Before their donation our campaign had raised $145 toward the $1000 goal. They pushed us up to $800 and their contribution alone will serve 33 people. We have 55 days left to raise the remaining $200. If we meet our goal before June 30th we can send our money out into the field for projects that are about to begin. With just a few phone calls a group of sorority sisters came together to produce amazing results. The ladies are friends for life and they’ve carried the values they learned in their sorority days with them throughout their life. Thank you ladies, your generosity is inspiring.

What could you do with a little effort? Would you be willing to change a life for $20?

Go here to read our first post on Charity:Water.

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Charity Spotlight- Charity Water

Do you remember when you were a kid and getting $5 in your birthday card was like winning the lottery. If you got $20, that could essentially last you forever. I think I could buy an entire outfit for $20 and now I couldn’t even buy half a pair of jeans for that amount (and I am frugal!). Maybe our tastes have become more costly or things cost more, probably both, either way somewhere along the way $20 lost its value. In fact, I can’t even fill up my gas tank for that anymore. Well, I found a way to turn back the inflation clock and restore the value of $20. More on that in a moment, first let me tell you a little about water.

The worst water I have ever drunk probably came from a hose. The water was in fact the same as the water that comes from the faucet but drinking it from a hose gives a rustic, less appealing feel to it. In most metropolitan areas, it is rare to find a household that drinks out of the tap, because of the horrid taste. Bottled water is a huge industry and people are willing to pay extra for the freshest tasting water i.e. Fiji. In addition to drinking it we go through hundreds of gallons a day in the bath, washing dishes,  and doing laundry to name a few. We take it for granted as we know it will pretty much always be there. Simply turn on a faucet and without thinking we may let tons of it wash down the sink while we  brush our teeth. Water has never been a luxury in  my life, until now. Water is necessary to survival and so in many cases people will drink any form of it just to be able to have a drink. Unsafe water and lack of basic sanitation cause 80% of diseases and kill more people every year than all forms of violence, including war. Enter Charity Water. Charity Water is an organization founded by the truly inspiring Scott Harrison with a goal to provide clean drinking water to countries who do not have any. Many families wait in line for 8 hours for a chance to get water, carry 40+ pound containers on their backs to take it home, and travel several miles in order to provide water for their families. Many times it is the children who do this job which prevents them from going to school and often leaves them with severe postural problems where they are left hunched over. Children fight for water with cows who drink out of the same murky hole complete with dead bugs and outrageous amounts of bacteria.

There is no proper bathing, afterall you can’t get clean from dirty water which leaves many, especially girls, feeling very insecure. Children are left with devastating tumors, flesh-eating bacteria, and cleft palates due to all the bacteria and disease ingested from drinking the water.

Through Charity Water’s efforts and the labor of people in the villages, people are finally getting clean water through the use of wells and other forms of filtration methods. Which brings me back to that meaningless 20 bucks. $20 will provide clean drinking water for one person for 20 years. Talk about value! What we easily spend on a night out to dinner, can change someones life for 20 years and beyond!

You can help. We are sponsoring a campaign with a goal to raise $1000 in 90 days. 100% of public donation goes to fund clean water projects. In a few months we will be able to see the well we contributed to via GPS and Google mapping. Even more we will know we changed the lives of several families forever. Help us provide the luxury of water to people who really need it. Click here to donate to our campaign. Any amount will change a life. Let’s see how fast we can round up $1000!

“For me, charity is practical. It’s sometimes easy, more often inconvenient, but always necessary. It’s the ability to use one’s position of influence, relative wealth and power to affect lives for the better. charity is singular and achievable.” -Scott Harrison, founder of Charity Water

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