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Yay for Spring!

After a FREAK winter storm this past weekend that brought some 26 inches of snow to areas near us and wreaked utter havoc on my newly planted garden, I am craving all things spring! Today marks the first official day and as I sit here in a sweater and thick socks, I can only daydream about the better days to come! If you are suffering from late winter blues, this bright summery wedding will likely cheer you up!

Melissa Dunstan Photography sent over this cheery wedding and it seems perfectly fitting for a cold day like today! I know Melissa is even colder than I am as she lives in the area that got the 26 inches of fresh powder. Melissa actually served as a bridesmaid in this wedding and the couple are dear friends of hers. Kristen, Melissa’s assistant, was the photographer behind the lens for this beautiful wedding. Melissa has a beautiful post on her blog about this couple and the friendship they all have. Head on over to read it in her words, anything I could say wouldn’t compare!

It just so happens to be the bride’s, Carrie, birthday today! Happy Birthday to you Carrie!

How are you spending the first day of Spring?

Other vendors:

Musicians:  Aly Jay
Dress Designer:  Mia Solano
Makeup Artist:  Amee Byers
Officiant:  James Jay
Museum:  Riordan Mansion
Images submitted via Two Bright Lights.

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Real Wedding: One last bit of winter

As Winter comes to a close and we start to see the first signs of Spring, I thought I’d take the chance to give one last plug to winter. While wedding season is typically in the Spring or Summer, I can’t get enough of the winter weddings that come complete with snow. Maybe it is because they are so much more rare, or perhaps it’s the rich colors or the unique florals, either way snow just adds so much romance to wedding photos and I love it.

To add to the beauty of this wedding, this couple decided to donate to charity in lieu of favors. They told guests that they had selected 3 charities and listed various reason why they selected each group. Here is who they chose, from the couple themselves:

  • The Denver Rescue Mission: The DRM serves over 200 meals, three times a day, to the homeless and hungry of Denver. They also offer transitional housing and rehabilitation programs for those wishing for a “fresh start”. The Denver Rescue Mission is also the site of our first date, where we bonded over serving others in need.
  • The Alzheimer’s Association: The greatest mission of the Alzheimer’s Association is to eradicate the disease through the advancement of research. Known as the disease of the longest goodbye, Alzheimer’s is a progressive disease where symptoms of dementia worsen over a number of years. This organization was chosen in honor of Caitlin’s grandfather, John David Ferree, who lost his battle to Alzheimer’s in September of 2010.
  • Push America: The mission of Push America is to build leaders of tomorrow by serving people with disabilities today. This organization was chosen by Chad, who participated in the 2007 Trans-America Journey of Hope bicycle ride for Push America. Chad firmly believes that Push America not only impacts the lives of the people it serves, but also the young men who volunteer their time to serve others.

That right there makes this wedding gorgeous, inside and out. Thanks to Bill of Kelli Nixon photography for capturing the gorgeous elements for us all to see.

Thanks again to Kelli Nixon Photography for sharing this lovely winter wedding with us!

Images submitted via Two Bright Lights.

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Real Wedding: In A Gorgeous Oregon Park

I am convinced that this couple could not have picked a more beautiful place to host their summer wedding. The lush green surroundings are one of the things I miss most about living in Iowa. Although I love the desert, I miss fields of greenery, wild flowers in bloom and rain! All of which this wedding included. This sweet wedding was not only beautiful but the couple included boat rides, games, and a little lounging into their big day. It honestly looks perfect to me. Thomas of Sikora Photography sent this Oregon wedding over and it was just what I needed on this cold Wednesday morning.

Venue: Bridal Veil Lakes

Images submitted via Two Bright Lights.

 

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Real Wedding: A Flower Filled Vineyard

Anyone have any fun weekend plans? This Sunday actually marks my 28th birthday. It is hard to  believe that I have just two years left of my twenties. When I was in college I had a pretty set plan for my life which included having kids before 30. But then as you approach 30 and really get to the point where kids are actually part of the conversation you realize that 30 isn’t all that old. We’ve also realized that in terms of having kids 30 isn’t old at all and we are enjoying just being a couple, for now. I’ve always considered my birthday to be a bit of a downer, just two weeks after Christmas, it often gets lost in the post holiday hangover. But in a way it is nice to start the new year with a new age. It’s almost as if everyone should be born in January so that we all get a chance to truly start fresh. I’ll report back on how I feel about that after I see how many people forget this year… I’ve requested that Kyle make me this cake:

Photo from Erich McVey Photography via Style Me Pretty

If he does it, you can all admit that I do in fact have the best husband ever.

To end the week on a high note, I’ve saved this sweet vineyard wedding filled with bright flowers. This one was sent over by Melissa Dunstan (our own wedding photographer) and I am in heaven. I love the gorgeous vineyard, the perfectly placed flowers, and the huge  smile on the Bride’s face. Consider this a bit of sunshine during these cold winter days. By cold I mean high 60′s, low 70′s but I am sure some of you are much colder!

Thanks so much Melissa for sharing another gorgeous wedding!

Images submitted via Two Bright Lights

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Real Wedding: A Sweet Backyard Affair

When I saw this wedding on A Low Country Wedding a few months ago, I thought it was super sweet and I loved that it took place in one of my absolute favorite places, Flagstaff. When it popped in my inbox a few days ago, I was excited to find out more about the day. The wedding was simple and took place in a backyard and it seems like those weddings always have the best stories behind them. It seems like often the couple wants to skip all the fuss and just have an intimate gathering their own way. Well this story, while not so much about the wedding itself, didn’t disappoint.

Michele of Michele Koechle Photography sent over this backyard wedding filled with DIY details and fun. The couple married in their own backyard, she is a lovely J.Crew frock and he in a dapper suit complete with a perfectly striped tie. One of my favorite things about being a wedding blogger is getting a glimpse at such an intimate moment in people’s lives. I love the emotion, the love, but every once in awhile you read a great back story that makes you realize that fate is always in play. For more on that, I’ll let the bride take it away.

So to get down to the knish. Tom and I met at work, I was his manager and let this be clear…we did not like each other. We had thought each other had an air of pompousness for different reasons. It wasn’t until after he had accepted an invite to rent a room at my best friend’s house that we really got to know each other. Then finally the day came that I (Carmen) fell in love. I had a few friends over. At the party I was sitting between my then love interest and Tom. I was experiencing this rubber band effect my mind was telling me that I wanted to be with this cute mohawk haired guy and my heart and soul had Tom in mind. The rubber band as I like to call it was pulling me towards Tom. The next day I asked Tom out. I have been mad in love ever since.


Our first “I love you” actually happened a few times. Around one month into our relationship Tom had become my ride to and from work most days and on the first occasion he let “I love you” slip. I was leaving his car to enter my home. Simply, like one might say to a loved one in whom one is familiar with this particulate phrase. Of course, at this time I was also in love but I didn’t want to get my hopes up. I felt that he might have said it out of habit so I said nothing and acted “normal”. This happened the same way again and again I thought it might be a mistake so nothing. Then on the third time of this “habit” I said “did you just say I love you”? He looked at me just a bit sheepishly and said “aaah yeah I guess it was what I said”. I responded with “well do you?” In which he said “I do, do you?” At this time my heart was pumping like crazy I then replied with “I love you too”. We spent the rest of that day together in loving bliss.


We were engaged for 1 1/2 years and I was the one who asked Tom to marry me. Our wedding was planned in three months. We wanted to keep it simple, just like our relationship, and we only had a limited budget.

No backyard wedding is complete without a few fun games, am I right?

Thanks so much Michele for sharing!

Images submitted via Two Bright Lights.

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Real Wedding: A Light-filled Dreamy Day

So I’ve made a few resolutions, some simple, some more difficult but I think it is always beneficial to have goals to aspire to. If you are planning on setting a few be sure to write them down and read them daily. Yes, daily. There is a reason people give NY’s resolutions such a hard time. By February first most of our goals and aspirations have been buried in the pile of life not to be looked at again until next year. Writing them down holds you more accountable. It also helps to share them with someone whether that be publicly on a blog or to your best friend or your spouse. Just the fact that other people know what you are trying to do makes you more likely to achieve them. So today, I am going to share a few of mine.

  • Eat breakfast daily (Easier than it seems for someone who is completely okay with just having coffee)
  • Keep work hours to 9-6pm, no exceptions. (SOOO important when you work for yourself. It is easy to sit at my computer long into the evening and it’s time for me to start treating this more like an actual job. It also explains the reason my post is going up so late, I didn’t get to it by 6pm yesterday. Hopefully I’ll also learn to manage time better…)
  • Complete my re-branding. (This is a biggie and something I have struggled with but it is time for a change. More on this later.)
  • Improve my food photography (As a writer for a food site, it is imperative that I have better photos. I am determined to improve. However that means reading and practicing… I bought 2 books several months ago and have barely opened them. This year I will.)
  • Write one research heavy article per month. (As a free-lance writer it is easy to make excuses, get lazy and not finish projects. When you work for yourself there is no one there to hold you accountable or get you in trouble if you don’t do something. I love to write but actually having to research reminds me of when I was in school and the fun of writing goes away. My mission is to stop being lazy and push myself more.)
  • Be a better boss. (For the reasons mentioned above. I am the only one that can hold myself accountable so it is time to do just that.)

Ok- tell me what yours are. Or tell someone and be sure to keep working on them long past the end of January!

If you need a little lovely to get you inspired, you are in for a treat today! This gorgeous light filled wedding from Lavara Photography is absolutely dreamy. What’s even better is that this wedding took place in New Zealand and so it will be like a little mini-vacation for your eyes!

A few words from the lovely bride:

We were so excited to celebrate our big day with our beautiful family and our closes friends. We loved Markovina as a venue, so rustic, beautiful, simple and best of all we could have our ceremony and reception at the same place so our guests could just sit back and enjoy the day! I designed my dress by myself. Pretty nerve racking really but LOVED how it turned out. It was simple, flowey and I think suited our whole theme”. We had a friend who made our cute mini cupcake cake, and another friend put our flowers and table settings together. Just brilliant! I walked down the aisle to “Eyes for you” by Nathan King. Just represented our deep feelings for eachother. Walking down the aisle with my dad was such an amazing moment and seeing Alex at the end with tears in his eyes was so overwhelming and soooooo special! I thought “YES!!! Can’t wait to start our lives together”. We just had the greatest time. At one point we both looked at eachother and said… “Wow all our planning, our family and friends who have helped us plan this day and look…everything is just PERFECT and everyone is just having an amazing time celebrating with us” Mission accomplished!!! My advice to anyone planning a wedding is to let the groom help and have input. Many of us woman think they wouldn’t be interested or want to have there say on the tiny details. But they do!!! And doing the planning and the hard work together is the best!! Brings you together. Also on the special day ENJOY IT!! The day goes soooooooooo fast and I think its so important to try and take in everything as much as you can so you can remember how special it was. Alex and I still talk about the day when we look at photos or drive past the venue…the memories are awesome.

Don’t you just feel a bit warmer looking at all of these sun kissed images? Thank you so much to Lavara Photography for sharing this gorgeous day with us!

Images submitted via Two Bright Lights.

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Cowboy Boots and Blue Skies

Happy New Year friends! I hope you all had a wonderful holiday. I sit here in slight amazement that it is all over and we have another full year to look forward to. Kyle and I celebrated the new year with our neighbors and a 19 year old bottle of Dom Perignon that my grandparents gave us. We weren’t convinced that it would still be good after all that time but it was and we drank every last bit of it. I know we all say we will be healthier in the new year but we are in some serious need of a detox. I feel like we have been eating for the last two weeks straight and part of me is truly looking forward to eating normally again and working on being healthier in the new year. Do you all make goals or resolutions?

I plan to fill this first week of 2012 with lots of lovely and I am thrilled to start with a beautiful Utah wedding complete with cowboy boots and gorgeous red rocks. The scenery reminds me a lot of where we got married which made me love this sweet wedding even more. Thomas of Sikora Photography sent this one over and as soon as I laid eyes on the portraits of the Bride and Groom in cowboy hats, I knew I had to share.

 

Thank you Sikora Photography for sharing this beautiful country wedding with us!

Images submitted via Two Bright Lights.

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On trends and bigger problems

Long live…

  • burlap
  • bunting
  • suitcases
  • picnics
  • peonies
  • bird cage veils
  • skeleton keys
  • dessert tables
  • cake pops
  • chalkboards

Long live details that make you happy, elements that make you grin, and mementos that bring back memories and create new ones all on their own.

Long live modern, vintage, offbeat, eclectic, budget, extravagant, destination …

Long live shoe shots, ring shots, posed shots, jumping shots…

Long live mustaches, paper straws, balloons, and photo booths…

Long live weddings- however you interpret them.

Long live love- love for details, love for special touches, love for planning, love for each other.

Long live marriage because when all is said and done that is all that matters. Details or no details, you married your best friend and you should feel pretty great about that regardless of what anyone has to say.

Want to get fired up about something? Want to rant about something really terrible?

Do you want to really start a conversation?

Start fighting for marriage equality, we have far bigger problems than mason jars.

 

*Photo courtesy of Jacin of Lovely Little Details

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Wedding Wednesday: A Glamorous Texas Affair

So last week I told you guys about the incident at the bank where an elderly lady fell down, well I had been telling Kyle that he should call the friend who knew the lady who fell and also happened to be there, to make sure she was okay. I couldn’t get that little lady off my mind. On Friday he decided to go to the friend’s business to check up and she looked him right in the eye and said, “I need to talk to you!!” Fearing the worst, he waited around for her to have a free moment. Turns out the lady is saying that someone pushed her down the stairs AND went through her purse. Said purse wasn’t even in the picture as all she had in her hands were keys and her debit card! Can you believe that?! We are unsure if she is a bit unstable or if like so many others she is trying to capitalize on her unfortunate experience somehow. Either way I had to laugh because that was the last thing I expected to happen. Long story short, the lady is fine, bruised up but okay.

Moving on to today’s gorgeous wedding from Alex M Photography. I am in love with this wedding from the DIY details, to the personal and meaningful touches, to the Bride’s AMAZING Dress. I am obsessed with the bouquet and the cake, well the cake blows my mind. This wedding is gorgeous from top to bottom but the best part is, it was everything the couple hoped it would be and their love was infused in every detail. As I scrolled through the photos I couldn’t help but think that this wedding looked like a ton of fun to be at too. Without further ado, I bring you the bride, Lauren’s take of the big day.

We were engaged on July 15th, 2010 and got married on October 22nd 2011, in Longview, Texas at an amazing venue called The Belgium House with a beautiful gazebo and amphitheater style seating in levels. My husband and I met at Texas Tech University at homecoming in 2007 when his fraternity and my sorority paired up. We each got together when our fraternity brothers/sorority sisters separately did our chants, plus sang the Tech fight song. We’ve been together since!

My husband Blaine’s fraternity Kappa Alpha Order is known as “southern gentlemen” and we love Texas country, so we pictured a very simple, laid-back yet romantic country setting, very warm and comforting. Our ceremony and dance floor/reception was outside.

Our colors were chocolate brown, ivory, and gold. I gave my bridesmaids a great site called aria.com where I chose a mocha brown for their dress color and then let them choose which style dress they wanted, it turned out looking amazing with the guys tan suits and brown ties.

My flowers were all ivory garden roses, hydrangeas (dusted with brown eyeshadow – so pretty!), coffee break roses, and some curly willow branch. I had a really hard time choosing a dress (I graduated with an Apparel Design degree) and just couldn’t decide till I found the perfect one about 4 months before the wedding. It was sweetheart neckline with a low back, all ivory french alencon lace, fit and flared, and then I paired a gorgeous flower belt with it for some flair. I got so many compliments on it.

We had a candy bar, beer in keg boxes (like mini fridge), and gold champagne fountain. My cake was made to look like my dress (bottom tier mimicked the lace, 2nd tier to look like my belt, top to look like pearls and my grandparents topper). Blaine’s cake was made to look like a bucket of beer – there is a popular hangout in Lubbock where all the Tech students hang out to drink and eat nachos called Chimy’s. The cake was a bucket of Chimy’s Coronas..our friends from Tech LOVED it, and we received a call from Chimy’s to hang a picture of it in the bar. I either made/painted/crafted/re-did/or garage-saled a majority of our decorations. We did do personalized koozies for the groom’s table (all Tech themed), cocktail and dinner napkins, and beer cups. My mom is a god-send. She researched and got so many budget-friendly decorations that really made a difference. She always knew exactly the right font for the napkins or the perfect accessory for the registration table. We were on the same page through the entire process. It turned out to all flow as wonderfully as I’d imagined! Plus, the east texas weather was impeccable that night. 

Ok so even with all of these gorgeous details, my absolute favorite part of their wedding is still to come and it involves the Bride’s Grandparents. As a Bride who incorporated her Grandparents into her big day, these next photos had me in tears…

The cake topper was on my grandparents at their wedding. They recently celebrated their 56th wedding anniversary on September 5th, and I loved the thought of using it. At the wedding we thought it would be perfect if they cut and served each other cake just as they had so many years ago. It was a really special moment.

How sweet is that?!

What advice would you give to other couples?

My only advice to those couple’s while planning is not to sweat the small stuff. My amazing mother-in-law told me this the day before the wedding. Remember what’s important. Forget whats not. Keep in mind what the day is really about..and not if the fountain isn’t connected correctly and still in the wrapping.

Thank you so much Lauren for sharing the details of your wedding day and a BIG Thank you to Alex for sharing all the gorgeous photos! Congrats to you!

Images submitted via Two Bright Lights.

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Wedding Wednesday: A Nigerian Dance Fest

Yesterday Kyle and I were running a few errands, one of which involved a trip to the bank. I got out of the car and was waiting in line to approach the ATM and a little, elderly lady was also waiting. She got out of her car just before I did but she had started to talk to another person passing by. I had no intention of cutting her in line so I kept glancing at her so that when it was her turn, I could make it clear that she could go ahead. She stopped talking and started to make her way up to the ATM. Before I could even tell her to go ahead I noticed she was wavering and about to lose her balance. The poor lady, in what felt like slow motion, started to slowly stumble sideways. I knew this wasn’t going to end well. What made the situation worse is that she was about to approach a set to two stairs heading downward. As she was clearly about to plummet down the stairs face first, I said, “Be Careful!” Clearly the most unintelligent thing to say as she had no control over her mannerisms and clearly she probably didn’t have any intention of falling on her face at the bank. Well, she did, fall on her face that is. I was too far to catch her or even help, all I could do was watch in horror. I went running over, the poor lady sprawled out, her arm in the most awkward position, and her face flat against the concrete. I wasn’t sure exactly what to do or if she had been knocked out, so I knelt down by her face and said “Are you okay?” Again, clearly a stupid question. Then I heard a scream from behind me, “DON’T MOVE HER, SHE MIGHT HAVE BROKEN HER NECK!” While I had no intention of moving her and I am pretty positive she had no intention of moving, I thought this person may not be helping the lady’s mental state. She moved her head a bit and blood started pouring out of her mouth. Before I had time to throw up, Kyle came running over to which another passerby yelled, “He’s a doctor!!” We live in a small town. While he is a doctor, he is a chiropractor and not a trauma surgeon, and considering we had just about nothing on us that could help her he was about as useless as I was. I did learn one thing from my first aid class and that was to designate someone to call 911. So I looked at the guy who was convinced her neck was broken and said, “You, call 911.” He did, my job was complete. The ambulance came and hauled her off, she was bleeding and clearly distraught but I think overall just fine. I think she busted her lip but at least she didn’t crack her head open. It was truly amazing to see how many people stepped in to help, one lady brought a towel out of her car to place the lady’s head on and she even picked up the towel that was soaked in blood after the lady had been taken away and put it back in her car, the same lady grabbed one tiny napkin out of her purse and without even thinking of the implications of germs or blood-borne illnesses, gently wiped some of the blood from her face. The man that called the police stayed the whole time until she was taken away. The lady, that shouted about Kyle being a doctor, called the lady’s husband who made it just in time but luckily didn’t have to see her face down on the pavement. I’ve been thinking about her all day and I hope she is okay. It turns out that the conversation she was having while waiting in line while I was trying to make eye contact with her, was about the fact that she had been having issues with her left leg. It was dragging and her doctor wouldn’t refer her to physical therapy or do anything for her. That broke my heart as clearly she was in no position to be walking on her own. Anyway, there is no real point to this little story, I just thought I’d share.

Moving on to happier subjects… weddings! I received this wedding from Evangeline of Evangeline Lane Photography. I always love looking at her work due to her ability to capture images in such a real way. I almost feel as if I was there when I look at the images. When she sent this one over, I instantly fell in love with the vibrant images and the excitement that emanated from the photos. Here’s what she had to say about this couple:

Chappella and Chijioke  were married at the carriage house in forest park in Springfield, MA.  I believe they met at a camping trip in Canada a few years back.  His family is originally from Nigeria so they wanted to incorporate some traditional Nigerian wedding ceremonies.  Half way through the reception they changed into traditional garb and did a money dance (where guests dance around and throw money at you for good luck).  Both of his parents wore traditional garb the whole night.  Chappella’s sorority sisters surprised her with a sorority song, which they sang holding hands with her in the middle.  That was super cute!  Also, I think it’s important to mention that I’ve never seen guests have such a good time at a wedding.  Everyone was dancing their asses off the entire night, happy as ever!!  They treated them like celebrities…I’ve never seen so many people with cameras and cell phone cameras.  It often looked like that famous photo of Britney Spears and Kevin Federline sitting on the beach with the hundreds of paparazzi in front of them!

What sort of crazy things have happened to you this week?

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